i think its true that we are brought up learning not to speak our mind if whatever we have to say will possibly cause discomfort, anger or negative feelings in another person (like to strangers). societal norms train us from birth not to show negative emotions in public. so we always just swallow and say it's okay, forget it, whenever is possible.
but there will come a time when this really irresponsible, annoying and pushy someone keeps stepping on your tail that you have to be firm and fend for your rights by telling her off. telling people off isnt easy ehh. because i've never really told anyone off seriously before. now its time to learn, hone and store this skill for future use/reference.
if you're wondering who im talking about, its just this super horrendous (third level cheryl) australian group mate im working with for an assignment. this person who gets on my nerves and made my blood boil all the way till my temple. and who made the originally inactive volcano erupt in me.
no way you are pushing me round again. drink some responsibility juice. goodbye.